Kindness... The Secret Sauce
Why Kindness?
We can all agree that life throws unexpected curve balls our way. Regardless of our success, no one person is free from the ups and downs that make up the journey of life. Hardship comes in many forms from loneliness, financial strain, illness, trauma, loss, feelings of inadequacy and the list goes on and on. However, with kindness comes hope. And with hope we can overcome every obstacle, we can rise above and tap into a strength we never knew existed. Kindness is the secret ingredient that makes life worth living.
Science of Giving
Winston Churchill said, “We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.” Little did Churchill know that there is actually scientific evidence to prove that by giving we do in fact increase the quality of our life. Giving to others gives the human race back the one commodity that we are in constant pursuit of – HAPPINESS!
Did You Know?
Happiness
People who give contributions of time or money are “42 percent more likely to be happy” than those who don’t give (- Harvard “Social Capital Community Benchmark Survey”).
Giving vs Receiving
Studies have shown that spending on others feels better than spending on yourself.
Helpers High
Giving has also been linked to the release of oxytocin, a hormone that induces feelings of warmth, euphoria, and connection to others. A dose of oxytocin causes people to give more generously, feel more empathy towards others and the best part is that the so called “symptoms” last up to two hours!
Brain Power
Giving donations to charity has been proven to lead to activation in the ventral striatum, a brain region that’s commonly referred to as the reward center.
The greatest thing of all is that when a person gives, they catch a glimpse of just how amazing they are, the potential they have and they suddenly become filled with a sense of purpose.
A Healthier, Happier Choice
Science of Kindness
Skeptical about the power of kindness? Check out some interesting stats, proving once and for all why kindness is a healthier and happier choice.
Endorphins
Engaging in ACTS OF KINDNESS produces ENDORPHINS, the brain’s natural painkiller.
Serotonin
KINDNESS stimulates the production of SEROTONIN. Serotonin HEALS your wounds, CALMS you down, and makes you HAPPY!
Less Stress
COMPASSIONATE people have 23% LESS CORTISOL, the infamous STRESS hormone.
2x Dhea
COMPASSIONATE people have 2X the amount of DHEA, which SLOWS DOWN AGING!
3 Degrees
Every act of KINDNESS spreads through 3 DEGREES OF SEPARATION!
Did You Know?
Kindness the Healthier Happier Choice!
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People who are kind and compassionate are usually the most successful.
Studies consistently show that we feel happier when we perform acts of kindness – for our children, students, families, friends, and communities. Not only do good deeds make us feel better, they provide a more successful lifestyle (David Brooks, New York Times Nice Guys Finish First).
Happier children have greater academic success.
Students who performed acts of kindness with their peers, families and in the community had greater academic success than those who simply recorded seeing acts of kindness over a span of three months (Price-Mitchell, 2013).
Self-efficacy leads to higher achievement, goals, and positive behavior.
Researchers have found that higher self-efficacy is linked to: 1) greater ability to think productively by applying positive thinking skills when facing a challenge; 2) higher motivation; 3) stronger effort put into an activity or task; greater resilience; and 4) lower vulnerability to stress and depression (Bandura, 2013).
Building self-value circumvents depression.
An estimated 2 million 12- to 17-year-olds experience clinical depression annually, and Reivich and Gillham (2009) have found that building resilience in younger children can help thwart depression before it starts.
Engaging in an act of kindness creates a larger cycle of kindness.
Harvard researchers Fowler and Christakis (2008) investigate the phenomenon known as Social Contagion which explores how behaviors and even emotions spread throughout a social network, even up to 3 degrees of separation. Performing random acts of kindness can have an impact on happiness within a social network up to 3 degrees of separation. Meaning, that if one person engages in an act of kindness, a person 3 degrees removed from that individual will benefit from its impact.
The happier you are, the happier others around you will be.
People’s happiness depends on the happiness of others with whom they are connected. This provides further justification for seeing happiness, like health, as a collective phenomenon (Fowler & Christakis, 2008; 2012). For example, bullying is a potential source of unhappiness for young students and also for those individuals surrounding the student. Providing opportunities to better understand and experience kindness might not only improve their happiness but also the happiness of numerous others, thereby further validating the benefits of the Life Vest Inside Kindness Curriculum.
Kindness builds strong, lasting relationships.
Children who learn about and experience kindness tend to have stronger relationships with others because of their ability to empathize with how others feel. It is an important social skill that lasts throughout a lifetime and is seminal in adolescent and adult years (Hughes, 2013).
Being kind can reduce stress.
Kindness can reduce stress as well as the activation of autonomic and immune pathways that have been implicated in the development of a host of chronic, stress-related illnesses, including depression, heart disease, and diabetes (Dodson-Lavelle, 2008).
Sharing kindness fosters a greater sense of family and community.
Engaging in kind acts allows students to get involved in seminal developmental activities that builds a greater sense of togetherness. The connectedness, rooted in kindness, fosters fondness and compassion toward one another.
Being kind is healing.
Helping can enhance our feelings of joyfulness, emotional resilience, and vigor, and can reduce the unhealthy sense of isolation. The health benefits and sense of well-being return for hours or even days whenever the helping act is remembered. Additionally, more kindness = less pain; a decrease in both the intensity and the awareness of physical pain can occur. (Luk, 2001).
More kindness = Better Life.
Experiencing and performing acts of kindness provide an increased sense of self-worth, greater happiness, and optimism, as well as a decrease in feelings of helplessness and depression, is achieved (Luk, 2001).
Kindness improves the cardiovascular system.
Kindness benefits the nervous system. The longest nerve in the human body the vagus nerve, which controls inflammation in the body, plays a role in keeping your cardiovascular system healthy. Studies show that people who practice compassion have a more active vagus nerve, leading a healthier life (Hamilton, 2010).